A Yarn and Fiber Artist’s Dilemma

A Yarn and Fiber Artist’s Dilemma

I will be stepping away from scheduled blog posting in 2026. This has been a hard decision for me, as I so value the friends I have made through Felting and Fiber Studio. I was happy to hear I am welcome to submit articles, to be used when regular contributors need respite. My mother’s Alzheimer’s is in the final stage. She is on hospice care doing fine at the moment: but we don’t know the future, do we? I’m also helping my aunt, transition into assisted living care. Brian and I, of course aren’t getting any younger, either. We are using the information we’ve learned,  to start thinking of our own future. We are definitely looking at downsizing, our living quarters, so that means it’s time to do a purge: “death purge” is what many call it. I don’t like that particular terminology, but I agree with the gist of the concept. As baby boomers, we grew up saving everything, “in case we need it,” down the line. We held onto baggage, because our parents and grandparents, told stories of what happened during wars, or depressions. We raised our children, in times of plenty, and they don’t want any of it! As the dutiful family “storage unit,” I have some really nice fiber related items to find homes for. Example: I have a dainty antique wooden swift with finely turned spindles (UK early 1900’s) in perfect condition: made for ladies embroidering fine linens…what do I do with it? It’s easy to think about listing such items, on social media outlets, but there are so many things to research before hand. It all takes time, that seems at a premium these days. A never ending dilemma

Of course, Brian’s answer to everything these days: “burn it!”

His cynicism is predictable, given what he’s witnessed, as my Etsy shipping clerk for 8 years. He sees customer “requests” in messages. In an effort to deliver, and receive the coveted 5 stars, I spend a lot of time doing things, to “make the sale.” Often, after endless messaging back and forth; the person rarely makes the purchase…or worse, never responds back at all. I am getting better at setting limits, but as I’m sitting here typing my article, another request bit the dust…and proved his point again. Hide the matches!!

Last weekend, I agreed to participate in a holiday craft show. My friend of 60 years is very active with a Veteran’s organization. My participation allows us to see each other, and supports a good cause. Because, so many are struggling financially, I chose my offerings carefully. I decided each item needed to be; visually pleasing, useful, with a low price point. I geared them to be used as stocking stuffers, small gifts for teachers, friends or relatives…maybe a child’s gift to Mom. Brian watched me search Pinterest for small items that met my criteria, and used some supplies I already had. I chose to make the following:

Fabric Wristlet Key Fobs Little Hill Craft video,

Beadable Pens and Beadable Key Chains (Search on Amazon)

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Microwave (Baked) Potato Bags YouTube Potato Bag Sewing Tutorial

Potato print fabric, sewn as envelope pouch, for microwave baked potatoes.
Large size microwave baked potato bags. In order to avoid potential fire, all materials must be 100% cotton; thread, batting, and fabric.

If you are unfamiliar with these Microwave Baked Potato bags, you are missing out on the best way to bake potatoes. They yield soft fluffy baked potatoes in less than a quarter of the time. I purchased mine 15 years ago, while on vacation. It’s been well used, ever since. In addition to baked potatoes, you can steam corn on the cob, warm tortillas, and bread/rolls.

I also took Woolbuddy ™️ needle felted animal ornaments, I had in my shop. They retail for $15 and are worth every penny, but I reduced them to $12.50 each, or “buy 4 get 1 free” (33% off retail). To make certain my prices were fair, I took samples to Mom’s facility. I’ve made friends with other family members: I sold a few potato bags and wristlet’s right on the spot. They felt my prices were too reasonable, for the quality and craftsmanship. I reassessed my prices and realized my potato bags needed to be $14, despite Etsy prices of $11. The specialty fabric I used on the outside is brand new and fetches $15/yard or more. I chose to line the potato bags with a brown fabric, instead of the white muslin my bag has. You can imagine the staining from years of constant use. $12.50 was my initial price: only a bit above supply costs.

I wasn’t looking to make much, as we’ve participated in the show a few years ago. I agreed to share a table this time, and gear my offerings to those attending. I sold 4 potato bags ($14 each), 1 pen ($5), 1 key fob ($6) and some of the needle felted animal ornaments for a total of $137. Once the 1/2 table fee, a raffle donation, and food came out, we probably covered the cost of potato bag fabrics. The foot traffic was constant, and we had a steady stream of lookers at the table. People loved the items, pricing didn’t seem to be an issue: I sold as much as the crafters near me. I’m often asked why I don’t sell my things at craft shows! I’ve always felt the time involved in the making, is rarely valued by those purchasing. Maybe it’s the area we live in? Whatever the reason, I had a plan for any items remaining. We are gifting them Mom’s caregivers. I was very careful to keep the samples, away from caregivers view, and that was a very good thing!

Brian still has his thought’s, about those matches…when I whine “what am I going to do with all this yarn and fiber?” I know he would never think of doing such a thing, while I am alive…but if anything happens to me, you might want to make a quick call!!

Happy Holidays!

8 thoughts on “A Yarn and Fiber Artist’s Dilemma

  1. Hello Capi. I’m the same generation as you and I totally understand everything you said. I hope you can pop in to see us all sometimes in a zoom meet and have a chat.

    The craft show sales were disappointing – your items were lovely and viewers obviously didn’t understand how cheap they were with regard to supply and labour! To gift some of your items is a good idea especially at this time of year.

    This side of the pond the clearing out is often referred to as ‘Swedish Death Cleaning’. But it’s so hard isn’t it? Apart from the sentimental stuff, there is so much that often does ‘come in handy’ and saves us buying new or helps with repair jobs. Over the years it’s saved us so much money and actually it’s quite a ‘green’ thing isn’t it? Recycling old style.

    I saw this joke online and thought it very funny for people like us:
    ‘When I die please don’t let my husband sell my craft stuff for what I told him I paid for it.’

    Keep your chin up Capi, cuddle Porter, have a laugh with Brian but hide his matches 🙂

  2. Yep, I’m another boomer Capi. I gave up trying to sell at craft shows some time ago, finding it actually a waste of money since I rarely covered my stand fee, so no I don’t think it’s the area you’re living in. Still too many people take the view that if it’s hand made it’s what we used to call “home made” and substandard, and they won’t pay a reasonable price even if it’s for something they really like.
    That swift you mentioned at the beginning sounds like an antique to me. Are you not able to take it to an auctioneer to try to sell it that way? I don’t know if you have local auction/sales houses on your side of the pond, but we usually have one or two in most towns. The auction house would take their share of the sale price but at least you wouldn’t have to mess about trying to put it up for sale on a social media market place. Alternatively you might be able to sell it to an antique dealer direct. Definitely hide Brian’s matches! 😊

  3. I think maybe try sell some of your collectables via an auction – have them valued by an auctioneer local to you, and sell them that way? Online sites are depressing I find, especially following your Etsy story.
    We all collect ‘stuff’ that we then have difficulty using, or even letting go. You do not need all that worry, especially now that you have your Mum, and auntie, taking up your time and more importantly, your emotional and physical energy and labour. I hope you do drop into the zoom chats too – just to chat with others once a month can be helpful.
    But, do try to take care of you too, try to treat yourself at least once a week.

    1. Thanks Marie,
      Your words of advice are most welcome. I am trying to concentrate on what is most important! I will keep reminding myself, to check in with you all, on Zoom. I am incredibly lucky to have you all in my life.

      Capi

  4. Thanks for your contributions Capi! I’m sure your mom’s caregivers will enjoy their gifts. Selling is a hard thing as I know from running a craft gallery for twenty plus years. But it’s great to educate people about the work that goes into the process and hopefully change their perceptions.

  5. Sorry to hear you’re not going to keep writing, Capi. I’m very glad though that your mother will have you in her later stages of life. You’re a good daughter.

    As for fibre, tell Brian to put the matches away and play with your stash! I know how time wasters can take the joy out of the business, so I’m happy to hear you’re creating boundaries… we all learn about those after a few bad experiences 🙂

    Stay healthy and strong, friend. See you on a Zoom call!

  6. Oh Capi you have made my husband and I laugh….we are running totally parallel with you both. The difference is that my H is suggesting the local rubbish tip rather than matches! 😥☹️😩

    Oh boy is it hard letting go!

    You are doing a sterling job re your mum and Aunty as many of our group know and understand from experience. I will miss your scribblings but look forward to catching up with your exploits on Zoom.

    Remember what the safety instructions are on an aircraft….put your oxygen mask on first! In other words look after yourself please.

    Xx

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